Need to know who is right and wrong, and wht to do now?

ok so the wife cheated on u 2 times... u saw the whole action... u are still in love with her... is the love just 4 her or 4 the sake of the kids?... think about this... cause its weird to raise some kids in this polluted environment where the mom f*cks around and the dad watches her and silently agrees and suffer. what kind of education receive those kids... its not healthy what u both do... u both chosen wrong paths in life... u are grown up people with kids and responsibility for those kids... u are no longer 1st to think about,,, the children come 1st now... u should have a conversation with her about this ... about what kind of mom she is and think about what kind of dad u are... about u feeling in love with her... where is ur dignity... how can u take this behaviour from her... does she love u back? love ( real love) needs 2 people... not just one who is addicted to the other... this is Obsession... let her free... if she comes back to u ... she is urs... she loves u... if not... it wasn't meant to be... good luck