HELP! PLEASE! I *NEED* TO GET OVER HIM!!! NOW!?

Jamie~Three years is a long time to hold onto hope for a guy who does nothing to keep your hope alive, whatsoever. How to get over him? First, you have to realize that no one is perfect, including him. He gets gas and farts; he gets diarrhea and has to vomit and do bodily things that you need to remember so you stop worshiping him. You need to start looking at other guys and expanding your interests. You need to learn to paint or do decoupage; learn the guitar; join a gym; and do things that will increase your self esteem. This guy knows you are totally enamored with him, I ure you. So, you come across as some love-starved puppy waiting for him to toss you a crumb of attention. You have to change all of that if you ever hope to capture his interest. So, get busy with your life; fall in love with you and flirt with other guys, or at least smile at some of them and talk to some of them once in awhile. The more you do this, the more your confidence will grow, and guys are always attracted to girls who have a lot of self-confidence. Become more mysterious; elusive and independent and he will begin noticing you out of interest in you and not out of wondering why you are practically stalking him. I'm glad you didn't choose the school where there is a so-called large amount of fun. You would have possibly gotten into a lot of trouble there; possibly gotten hurt really badly, etc. You just never know.Start putting more energy into you and your life and you will feel good enough about yourself to consider other guys and other options than this one single imperfect guy. Best of luck and I hope I have helped you.